I met these three yesterday after lunch with a dear friend. I've been trying to not push myself in NY, a stay motivated solely by medical needs (I'm fine, just getting second opinions on something that was diagnosed in Seoul). It's hard to fight my impulse to cram my time full of family and friends and professional work, but that's probably what got me into this mess in the first place. First, sleep. Second, food. After that, I'm just keeping my head above water. It's cold now, but I've been dreaming of learning to sail.